Good luck bro. I had to do the same thing a while back when I was traveling for work... And I know how those Conf calls with India can go...
Biggest thing is not to get down on yourself. Jeeze I reeked bit time when I first stated raiding. But reading between the lines on forums / asking other players, really does help out.
Funny story... I get a really nice buff on my Conjy from AA's. Now she's had this line completed since the end of Feb'07. It makes your pet 15% faster and 15% less resisitable. Or something like that....
Since I've pretty much always boxed her, and buffing a conjy is so time consuming, I've always had it macro'ed. And when I'm boxing, her pet can draw aggro and die, so I have macros to just recast / buff the mage pet.
For those of you that don't know, COnjy has to be about the worst buffing class out there. It takes a full 30 to 40s to buff, and thats just self buffing...
Well, since I've had these macro's forever, they are lined up on a hot bar. Well... I would cast my Group Power Buff (1), Group Resist Buff (2), Defensive Shielding Buff (3), Pet Resist / Speed Buff (4), Mage Pet (5), etc.
We wouldn't you know... wasn't until I found a gem of a post on Flames, some off topic / burried post: You MUST cast your Pet Resist / Speed Buff AFTER you pet is up.. And recast it every time you summon your pet... Here, since it was a maintained spell that never dropped I assumed it was always on the pet... Well I was totally wrong...
There are little things like that you can pick up from time to time. Believe it or not, this MINOR buff order change has made a difference on the parse.
Don't get down on yourself because of the parse. After your break, work with Brigman and exchange ideas and stuff.